Gifts for couples
Looking for Christmas gifts for couples you'll both get to unwrap? Here you'll find our best couples' sex toys and naughty games: couples' vibrators you can wear during sex, app-controlled toys, erotic board games, massage sets and bondage starter kits made for two. They're the perfect present when you want more closeness, more laughter and more passion this Christmas.
Shopping for just one of you? Check our gifts for her, gifts for him, Christmas vibrators and erotic lingerie for Christmas, or count down together with a sex toy advent calendar. More ideas are waiting in our Christmas gift ideas.
Every order ships in discreet, unbranded packaging, so your surprise stays a surprise. Order early and make this Christmas one you'll both remember!
Christmas Gifts for Couples: Sex Toys and Games You Can Enjoy Together
What's the best Christmas gift for a couple? The best sexy Christmas gifts for couples are the ones you both enjoy: a wearable couples' vibrator you can use during sex, an app-controlled toy for teasing (even from a distance), a vibrating cock ring that pleases both of you, an erotic board game or sex dice for a playful night in, a massage candle and oil set for slow foreplay, or a soft bondage starter kit for exploring something new. You'll find them all in the Gifts for couples category of the lovesexshop.ie sex shop, shipped in discreet, unbranded packaging.
A gift for two is more than a present. It's an invitation: to slow down after the Christmas rush, to laugh together, to try something new and to feel close again. Whether you've just started dating or you've been together for years, our couples' gifts help you turn cold December nights into your favourite memories of the year.
Top 10 Christmas Gift Ideas for Couples
- Wearable couples' vibrator: sits comfortably during sex and stimulates you both at the same time. The most popular couples' toy by far, from brands like We-Vibe and Satisfyer.
- App-controlled vibrator: one of you wears it, the other holds the controls on the phone. Perfect for teasing at a Christmas party or for long-distance couples.
- Vibrating cock ring: helps him last longer while the vibration stimulates her clitoris during sex. A gift for both of you in one small toy.
- Remote-control egg or panty vibrator: a cheeky secret only the two of you know about.
- Erotic board game: challenges, dares and questions that break the routine and get you laughing.
- Sex dice and card games: small, fun and ideal as an extra under the tree.
- Massage candle and oil set: the candle melts into warm massage oil for a slow, sensual evening.
- Bondage starter kit: soft handcuffs, a blindfold and a feather tickler for gentle first steps into BDSM.
- Couples' toy set: several toys in one box, so you can discover together what you like best.
- Sex toy advent calendar: a new surprise every day of December to open together. See our sex toy advent calendars.
Couples' Vibrators: Shared Pleasure During Sex
Couples' vibrators are designed to be used together, not instead of each other. The classic U-shaped models sit inside her while the outer arm rests on the clitoris, so both of you feel the vibrations during penetration. Many are rechargeable, waterproof and app-controlled, so you can change patterns without stopping. If you're buying your first couples' sex toy, this is the safest bet for a gift that gets used again and again. Looking for more solo-friendly options too? Browse our Christmas vibrators.
App-Controlled and Remote Toys: Play from Anywhere
Want to keep the tension going all evening? With an app-controlled toy, one partner wears it and the other controls the intensity from a smartphone, whether you're across the room at the Christmas dinner or in another country. For long-distance couples, it's one of the most thoughtful Christmas gifts there is: it turns a video call into a shared experience.
Erotic Games for Couples: Laughter First, Passion Next
Not every couple's gift has to buzz. Erotic board games, sex dice, dare cards and scratch-off position books are perfect if you want to break the routine with a smile. They're easy to give, fun to unwrap in front of each other and a great choice for couples who are a bit shy about toys. A game is also a brilliant first step if you'd like to talk more openly about your fantasies.
Massage and Sensual Sets: Slow Down Together
The Christmas season is busy, so give the gift of time. Massage candles melt into warm, skin-safe oil, and our massage sets combine oils, feathers and soft accessories for a long, relaxed evening. Add some music, dim the lights and let one massage lead to the next. It's the most romantic gift in this category, and a lovely option for couples who prefer gentle to bold.
Bondage Starter Kits: Explore Something New
Curious about a little power play? Our bondage kits for beginners include soft handcuffs, blindfolds, ties and ticklers, all comfortable and easy to use. They're a fun way to explore trust and anticipation together. Always agree on a safe word before you start, and go at your own pace.
Make It Complete: Lingerie and Gifts for Each of You
The best couples' gifts often come in pairs. Wrap a toy for the two of you together with a little something just for your partner: a seductive set from our erotic lingerie for Christmas, a personal treat from our gifts for women or something from our gifts for men. Need more inspiration? Our Christmas gift ideas category collects all our festive bestsellers in one place.
Which Couples' Gift Suits Your Relationship?
- New couple: keep it light with an erotic game, sex dice or a massage candle.
- Long-term relationship or marriage: bring back the spark with a wearable couples' vibrator or a bondage starter kit.
- Long-distance relationship: an app-controlled toy your partner can control from anywhere.
- Total beginners: a vibrating cock ring or a small couples' set with a water-based lube.
- Adventurous couple: a premium app-controlled couples' vibrator, a remote panty vibrator or a bigger bondage set.
- Romantic souls: a massage set, a sensual candle and a set of lingerie to go with it.
Quick Couples' Gift Finder
| You want... | Best gift | Why couples love it |
|---|---|---|
| Pleasure for both during sex | Wearable couples' vibrator | Stimulates both partners at the same time |
| Teasing and surprise | App-controlled or remote vibrator | One wears it, the other controls it |
| Longer, better sex | Vibrating cock ring | He lasts longer, she feels the vibration |
| A fun night in | Erotic board game or sex dice | Breaks the ice and the routine |
| Romance | Massage candle and oil set | Slow, sensual foreplay |
| Something new | Bondage starter kit | Gentle first steps into power play |
| A whole month of fun | Sex toy advent calendar | A new surprise every day of December |
How to Choose the Right Couples' Sex Toy
- Talk about it first (or not): a hint over dinner helps, but a well-chosen surprise works too.
- Start simple: for your first toy together, choose something easy, like a cock ring or a small couples' vibrator.
- Check the fit: wearable vibrators come in flexible designs; adjustable ones suit most bodies.
- Choose body-safe materials: medical-grade silicone is soft, hygienic and easy to clean.
- Go rechargeable and waterproof: more practical, and you can take the fun into the shower or bath.
- Don't forget the lube: a water-based lubricant is safe with silicone toys and makes everything better.
Discreet Delivery and Trusted Brands
Every order from lovesexshop.ie arrives in plain packaging with no logo and no hint of what's inside, so your gift stays between the two of you, even if the whole family is home for Christmas. We only stock products from verified brands such as We-Vibe, Satisfyer, LELO and Svakom, made from safe, body-friendly materials.
Christmas Gifts for Couples FAQ
What is a good Christmas gift for a couple?
The most popular Christmas gifts for couples are wearable couples' vibrators, app-controlled toys, vibrating cock rings, erotic board games, massage sets and bondage starter kits. Choose something you'll both enjoy, not just one of you.
What is a couples' vibrator?
It's a vibrator designed to be used together during sex. Most are U-shaped: one end sits inside her, the other rests on the clitoris, and both partners feel the vibrations.
Which couples' sex toy is best for beginners?
A vibrating cock ring or a simple, flexible couples' vibrator. Both are easy to use and don't require any experience.
Is a sex toy a good gift for my partner?
Yes. A toy you use together shows you care about your intimacy and want to share new experiences. Give it in private and keep the mood playful.
What can we use to spice up our relationship?
Erotic games, a couples' vibrator, a bondage starter kit or a sex toy advent calendar are all great ways to break the routine and try something new together.
What's the best gift for a long-distance couple?
An app-controlled vibrator. Your partner can control it from anywhere through their phone, which makes video calls far more exciting.
Are erotic board games fun for couples?
Very. They mix laughter with flirting and dares, and they're a gentle way to talk about fantasies if you're a little shy.
What is a good gift for a couple who already have toys?
Try something they don't own yet: an app-controlled toy, a remote panty vibrator, a bondage set or a premium couples' vibrator from a brand like We-Vibe or LELO.
Are bondage kits suitable for beginners?
Yes, our starter kits use soft handcuffs, blindfolds and ticklers. Agree on a safe word, start slowly and focus on trust and fun.
Can a couples' vibrator be used with condoms and lube?
Yes. Use a water-based lube with silicone toys. Most couples' vibrators can be used together with condoms.
What's a romantic, not too explicit gift for a couple?
A massage candle and oil set, a sensual massage kit or a set of lingerie. They set the mood without being too bold.
Is a sex toy advent calendar a good gift for couples?
Absolutely. You open a new surprise together every day of December, which builds excitement all the way to Christmas.
How do I give a couples' sex toy without it being awkward?
Give it privately, add a flirty card and present it as something for both of you. A little humour always helps.
Are couples' sex toys safe?
Our toys come from verified brands and are made from body-safe materials such as medical-grade silicone. Clean them before and after every use.
Is the packaging discreet?
Yes. Every parcel arrives in a plain box with no logo and no reference to the contents.
When should I order to get my couples' gift before Christmas?
As early as you can. Delivery times are shown at checkout, and couriers get very busy in the last weeks of December.
This Christmas, Give Something You'll Both Unwrap
The best gifts aren't the ones that sit on a shelf, they're the ones that bring you closer. Explore our Christmas gifts for couples at the lovesexshop.ie sex shop, pick something that makes you both smile, and enjoy a Christmas full of laughter, passion and togetherness.
