Gifts for men
Stuck on what to get him this year? Skip the socks and the aftershave: our Christmas gifts for men are made to get his heart racing. Here you'll find the best sex toys for men: realistic and vibrating masturbators, cock rings, prostate massagers, penis pumps, pheromone perfumes and naughty extras, perfect for your boyfriend, husband or yourself.
Want something you can both enjoy? Browse our gifts for couples, surprise him with a sexy look from our erotic lingerie for Christmas, or count down to the big day with a sex toy advent calendar. Shopping for her too? Check our gifts for women and Christmas vibrators, or find more ideas in our Christmas gift ideas.
Every order ships in discreet, unbranded packaging, so your surprise stays under wraps until he opens it. Order early and give him a Christmas he won't forget!
Christmas Gifts for Men: Sex Toys and Naughty Presents He'll Actually Love
What should I get my boyfriend or husband for Christmas? If you want a present he'll remember, the best erotic Christmas gifts for him are a realistic or vibrating masturbator for intense solo pleasure, a vibrating cock ring that makes sex better for both of you, a prostate massager for new kinds of orgasms, a penis pump for a little extra confidence, a pheromone perfume or a cheeky set of sexy briefs. You'll find all of them in the Gifts for men category of the lovesexshop.ie sex shop, delivered in discreet, unbranded packaging.
Men are famously hard to buy for. He already has the socks, the whiskey glasses and the gadgets. What he probably doesn't have is a gift that says "I know you, I want you, and I want you to feel good". An erotic present is personal, a little daring and guaranteed to get a reaction when he opens it.
Top 10 Christmas Gift Ideas for Him
- Realistic masturbator: a soft, lifelike sleeve with detailed inner textures. The bestselling sex toy for men, and the safest first choice.
- Vibrating or automatic masturbator: built-in vibration, suction or stroking movements for hands-free pleasure.
- Vibrating cock ring: helps him stay firm and last longer, while the vibration stimulates you too during sex.
- Prostate massager: designed to reach the P-spot for deeper, more intense orgasms. A great upgrade for curious men.
- Penis pump: creates a firmer, fuller erection before sex, a fun confidence boost.
- Masturbator egg or mini sleeve: small, affordable and playful, a perfect little extra under the tree.
- Pheromone perfume: a subtle, seductive scent for nights out and dates.
- Delay or stimulating gel: small details that make a big difference in bed.
- Sexy men's underwear: mesh briefs, a jockstrap or a wetlook body for a daring surprise.
- Sex toy advent calendar: a new surprise every day of December. See our sex toy advent calendars.
Masturbators: The Ultimate Solo Gift
Masturbators are the number one gift for men, and for good reason. Realistic models are made from soft, skin-like materials with ribs, nubs and chambers inside for sensations that feel close to the real thing. Vibrating and automatic models add rhythm and intensity, while open-ended sleeves are easy to clean. They're a perfect gift for long-distance relationships, busy weeks or simply for some well-deserved "me time". Always add a water-based lube for the best experience.
Cock Rings: Small Toy, Big Difference
A cock ring sits at the base of the penis and slows blood flow out, helping him stay firmer for longer. Stretchy silicone rings are great for beginners, adjustable rings fit almost everyone, and vibrating cock rings stimulate her clitoris during sex too. That makes it one of the best gifts you can give him, because you both get to enjoy it.
Prostate Massagers: New Sensations for Curious Men
More and more men are discovering the pleasure of the prostate, often called the male G-spot. A prostate massager is curved to reach it easily, and many come with vibration and remote control. For beginners, start with a slim model and plenty of lube. For the experienced, a vibrating, app-controlled massager is a premium gift he'll be excited to try.
Penis Pumps and Enhancement Toys
Penis pumps use gentle suction to draw blood into the penis, creating a fuller, firmer erection for a while. Many men use them as a fun warm-up before sex or simply for the confidence boost. Choose a model with a pressure release valve and follow the instructions for safe use.
Pheromones, Gels and Little Extras
Not every gift needs to be a toy. Pheromone perfumes add a seductive touch to his favourite scent. Delay sprays, warming lubes and tingling gels make an ordinary night feel new. They're also perfect stocking fillers or small extras to wrap alongside a bigger present.
Sexy Underwear and Costumes for Him
Who says lingerie is just for women? Mesh briefs, jockstraps, wetlook bodies and playful costumes are a bold, fun way to make him feel confident and desired. You'll find these together with festive sets for her in our erotic lingerie for Christmas.
Gifts You Can Enjoy Together
The sexiest gifts are often the ones you share. A vibrating cock ring, a couples' vibrator or an erotic game turns his present into a night for two. Discover more ideas in our gifts for couples. Want him to return the favour? Drop a hint with our gifts for women and Christmas vibrators, or browse all our festive bestsellers in our Christmas gift ideas.
Which Gift Suits Him?
- Total beginner: a stretchy silicone cock ring or a soft masturbator egg.
- Loves solo time: a realistic or automatic masturbator with a good lube.
- Curious and adventurous: a slim, vibrating prostate massager.
- Wants to impress in bed: a vibrating cock ring, a penis pump or a delay gel.
- Long-distance relationship: an app-controlled masturbator or prostate toy you can control from anywhere.
- Has a sense of humour: a cheeky costume or sexy briefs.
- Has everything: a premium toy from a brand like Satisfyer, Svakom or LELO, or a sex toy advent calendar.
Quick Gift Finder for Him
| He is... | Best gift | Why he'll love it |
|---|---|---|
| New to sex toys | Silicone cock ring or masturbator egg | Simple, affordable and fun to try |
| A solo pleasure fan | Realistic or automatic masturbator | Lifelike feel, intense sensations |
| Curious | Prostate massager | Deeper, new kinds of orgasms |
| Keen to last longer | Vibrating cock ring | Firmer, longer, and you feel it too |
| Looking for a boost | Penis pump | Fuller erection and extra confidence |
| Bold and playful | Sexy briefs or costume | A cheeky surprise for both of you |
| Impossible to buy for | Sex toy advent calendar | 24 surprises instead of one |
How to Choose the Right Sex Toy for Him
- Start simple: a cock ring or a soft masturbator is the easiest first step.
- Choose body-safe materials: silicone and TPE are soft, skin-friendly and easy to clean.
- Check the size: cock rings come in fixed and adjustable versions, so choose stretchy if unsure.
- Go rechargeable: USB-charged toys mean no searching for batteries on Christmas morning.
- Think about discretion: compact, quiet toys are easier to store and use.
- Always add lube: water-based lube is safe with silicone and TPE toys.
How to Give Him an Erotic Gift
Hand it over in private, with a flirty note or a promise for the evening. If he's shy about toys, present it as something you'll try together. Most men are secretly delighted to receive a sex toy, because it shows you've thought about his pleasure.
Discreet Delivery and Trusted Brands
Every order from lovesexshop.ie arrives in plain packaging with no logo and no hint of what's inside, so your gift stays a surprise even with the whole family around. We only stock products from verified brands, made from safe, body-friendly materials.
Christmas Gifts for Men FAQ
What is a good erotic Christmas gift for my boyfriend?
A realistic or vibrating masturbator, a vibrating cock ring, a prostate massager or sexy underwear. If you're unsure, a cock ring is a gift you'll both enjoy.
What should I get my husband for Christmas?
Surprise him with something personal: an automatic masturbator, a premium prostate massager or a penis pump, wrapped with a flirty note.
What is the best sex toy for men?
Masturbators are the most popular, followed by cock rings and prostate massagers. The best one depends on whether he prefers solo or shared play.
What is a good first sex toy for a man?
A stretchy silicone cock ring or a soft masturbator egg. Both are easy to use and great for beginners.
What does a cock ring do?
It sits at the base of the penis and helps keep it firm for longer. Vibrating versions also stimulate the partner during sex.
Is a prostate massager a good gift?
Yes, for curious men it's an exciting way to discover deeper orgasms. Choose a slim model for beginners and add plenty of lube.
How does a penis pump work?
It uses gentle suction to draw blood into the penis for a fuller, firmer erection for a while. Always follow the instructions and use the release valve.
Will he be offended by a sex toy gift?
Most men love it. Present it as something about his pleasure or something to enjoy together, and keep the mood playful.
What is a good gift for a long-distance boyfriend?
An app-controlled masturbator or prostate massager that you can control from anywhere. It turns video calls into something much more exciting.
What can I buy a man who has everything?
A premium automatic masturbator, an app-controlled toy or a sex toy advent calendar full of surprises.
Is a masturbator a weird gift from a girlfriend?
Not at all. Many couples see it as a sign of trust and openness, and it's perfect for when you're apart.
Do pheromone perfumes work?
They're designed to add a subtle, seductive note to his scent. Think of them as a playful confidence boost.
Which lube should I use with men's toys?
A water-based lube is safe for silicone and TPE toys and easy to clean.
How do I clean a masturbator?
Rinse it with warm water and a toy cleaner after every use, then let it dry completely before storing.
Is the packaging discreet?
Yes. Every parcel arrives in a plain box with no logo and no reference to the contents.
When should I order to get his gift before Christmas?
As early as you can. Delivery times are shown at checkout, and couriers get very busy in the last weeks of December.
Give Him a Christmas He Won't Forget
This year, wrap up a little courage and a lot of pleasure. Explore our Christmas gifts for men at the lovesexshop.ie sex shop, choose the present that fits him best, and watch his face when he opens it.
